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Jeff Jackson's avatar

Sinem, some of the things I like best about your writing are:

Your frankness and humility;

Your sincerity;

And perhaps the fact that you always come across seeming surprised that you've been as successful as you have been!

But I have a couple of questions that've been bugging me....

First, it seems like you have a team of people that write together, and of course that enables encouragement from each other, brainstorming, and helping to turn good ideas into super ideas.

But what if you're just a lone writer? (And, I'd like to know how your team came about!)

Another thing is that I've noticed is that the ppl that seem to be growing fastest, have lots of digital products for sale, workshops, coaching, etc ... all seem to be writing about one main topic: "How to grow your Substack community faster & better" (or a variation of that, like "how to be a better writer," "how to convert subscribers to *paid* subscribers," etc.).

But what if that's not your topic?

In my case, I write about "how to get more out of life," "how to enjoy your life more," and especially, "how to be successful at anything you want.". (Aka, "How anyone can be anything they want!").

You'd think more ppl would be interested in my chosen topic, but it doesn't seem so! Granted, I am learning how to present my material better (as you say, practice makes us better!), but still...y'know?!

So anyway, rather than embarrass myself in a public comment, I thought about writing a "private" email to you with these questions. But, I've never shyed from embarrassing myself (yuk, yuk), and since I always say my sincerity is one of my superpowers, I figure I'd put it out here where everyone can see it. (I don't feel the need to hide!)

So, wha'dya think about my questions?

Cuz seriously, I've been wanting to get some heartfelt engagement going, but all I get are "likes."

To me, that's almost as bad as "no comment!". It just doesn't lead anywhere!

The only engagement I get is when I comment on other ppl's posts, and then other readers will "pile on" and like my comments, etc. But, NO engagement from MY postings! Arrrrgh! 😱 😪

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A Victorious Life's avatar

I found this helpful. Thank you.

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